:( Need to talk at all? If I can help any which I probably can’t. But if you need anything tell me. You’re amazing and awesome and one of my favorite people.
Ahh, same to you. Thank you so much for being you. The worst part is I don’t think there’s much I can say? Everything in life is going fine (well, at least it’ll all turn out okay) but I just consistently feel horrible. It’s expected, a known part of my issues, but sucky nonetheless.
That "girl pockets vs. boy pockets" comic is really dumb. The dude is clearly wearing a hoodie and the girl isn't. How is that an accurate comparison? And why does gender need to be brought up?
Ya know, that comic was about as innocent as they come. It had cute art and it was funny and relateable and a lot of people liked it. But then you reblogged it with this nonsense. So instead of the artist being happy that their comic got popular and having a bit nicer day, you do this and make their day a little more crumby for not a lot of reason. And on top of that you have the nerve to send me this anonymous message.
You want to make this a thing? I can make this a thing if you like.
Masculine clothes are designed to be comfortable and functional while still being fashionable. Men can wear shorts and sneakers and hoodies and no one says a thing. But if someone like say, Ellen Page, tries to dress comfortably, the media tells her she is dressing like a “massive man.”
Feminine clothes are often designed to suit the male gaze. To suit what has been decided we find desirable. Little thought is put to function or comfort. Heels are huge. Pockets are tiny or missing. And if you try to deviate from that standard, the choices are usually frumpy, poorly made, and frowned upon.
I’m guessing that is why gender had to be brought up and why maybe you should try out a pair of women’s jeans before you prattle on about accurate comparisons.